_ Rose Simpson’s column appears every Tuesday morning on the OttawaStart Blog. She also blogs at Rose’s Cantina . _
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_ I’ve been married three times – not too proud of that – but I’ve never had one of those big weddings with poofy dresses, veils, a gaggle of attendants and the big hall. ...